Garbage.Theory
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- Dołączono
- 24 Lis 2020
I had a few years in an office where I was the only woman, and I remember telling the guys “hey, you should just treat me like a guy” and they were horrified that I would even suggest such a thing.I think there's more to it than that. It's common to rip into men for their appearence because they're men, people will routinely mock their friends for being a fat fuck or having man tits or looking like an autistic kid dressed them. When FtMs are finally TREATED like the men they want to be, it's a complete culture shock to them because the gloves are off and men no longer have to tiptoe around the situation. Now Ellen Page is a man we can talk about how she looks like a little soyboy twink, and deep down you know that has to get to her.
the fact that they treated me so differently was a sign of respect
So I can certainly see how there could be a culture shock moving into men’s spaces that might cause them to detrans.
the guys on the other hand find their ways into women’s culture of “accept who you are” and “beauty isn’t everything” and they freak the fuck out? Like, no, “you are beautiful how you are” is literally a thing you say to every woman who isn’t your sister or best friend, ugh. There’s just no winning with these sorts.
Sorry for the rant