- Dołączono
- 9 Lis 2018
At one job, one of my co-workers (sometimes boss) was trans. It was obvious when I first met him, and I had referred to him as "him" in another conversation, until I realized he was trans, and not just a gender bending guy.Woman feeling erotic about their own natural-born bodies is psychological different from men being aroused by their imaginary womanhood. Some women may feel sensual about their body curves, but I can't imagine them being aroused by menstruation cramps or pregnancy like troons do. There is no way Blanchard could formulate a meaningful control group.
Hiring troons decreases employee morale and productivity. I'm surprised so few employers acknowledge this.
Was a great co-worker and boss, just wanted to be known as the cool person who loved playing music and editing, not the troon who liked playing music, etc.
Never dressed liked an AGP, barely wore makeup, was usually dressed in a t-shirt and jeans. Trans was not a part of his personality, the center, that he required others to note constantly.
He came "out" a year later. One co-worker (a guy) was surprised and had no idea this person was not a woman.
(I always remember this when it seems like guys can be fooled more easily than women. Probably evolutionary as women need to be able to tell men at a glance for safety? Or maybe this guy was just an idiot)
But now, I am hyper vigilant about trans people I encounter on jobs. This is a new breed, who centers being trans as their core personality. Actually wants you to know they are trans and may require odd pronouns. Easily pissed off, quick to go to HR for non-compliance. So if I am at a job with one of these folks, I avoid them as much as possible. If I were hiring people, I would find any reason to NOT hire them because it is very unlikely it would be worth the trouble they are likely to cause , preventing having an efficient, supportive work group.
It didn't have to be this way. I had no issue 10+ years ago. This new demanding, science denying group is screwing it for trans people of decades earlier.