- Dołączono
- 28 Wrz 2019
I would bet that chantal got molested, it would explain a lot and it is a common comorbidity for death fats. I have no doubt that she wouldn't tell an accurate story about it to an internet audience because she just enjoys lying about things, I doubt she would want to be vulnerable by saying whatever really happened. It also doesn't really matter, because she is an adult and has the capability to face whatever happened in her past, just like every other traumatized person has to in order to function. It is depressingly common to have some kind of horror occur in childhood, most people deal with it in a less self destructive manner. Her failure to make a meaningful life is her problem.
It's times like this I wish there was a half/half button. I agree completely with this.
Also regarding a disability home care person to help with cleaning- I am in favor of it because it is ultimately cheaper for everyone. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Her apartment will be damaged by her refusal to clean, and by the cats, and have to be repaired. Then she gets sued by the landlord if the damages go above the security deposit (and they usually do with this level of neglect), and the vast majority of those types of damages are never collected. No one can live in the apartment and pay rent until its fixed. There is nothing that can force a person to take care of their surroundings, she will just do the same thing to each place she lives until she dies, or a low wage worker can help out a whole bunch of people like her and prevent the destruction cycle. I completely understand resenting the idea of the government helping her out, but its much more like helping out all the people who get fucked over if she is left to her own devices.
But I disagree with this. There's nothing wrong with her, from an overall standpoint, nor with Peetz. They're both capable of moving around the house, obviously. There's nothing wrong with their arms or legs that would prevent them from picking shit up. They are two able bodied adults. Now, if they wanted to *hire* a housekeeper to come by once a week and do the chores everyone else hates (like vacuuming or washing windows), I'd say right on. Giving her a maid because she's just too lazy to get off her ass and do the things that need to be done? That'd be a nope from me.