What are the "non-binares" or "they" pronoun users trying to achieve?

[FinnSven]

I really don't understand what their point is?

Troons n' Poons, sure, they want to be the opposite sex for various and whatever reasons.

So, what are "Non-Binaries" trying to achieve?

Its ridiculous to claim that sex does not matter to the point of irrelevance to a person, even if one excludes sexual related matters.
Physical capacity and brain development are different so men and women obviously have different talents, even excluding the reproduction elements.

So what do they think are the "benefits" of being percieved as neither?

If it is something like they don't want people to assume they think and like this or that because of their sex, then that fails massively.
In the west at least, most people accept that women and men can like diverse things and are not automatically bound to stereotype interests, so insisting on it for this reason is quite defunct.
The people in the west who still rigidly believe in such stereotypes are not going to accept a "non-binary indentity", so it just seems more that they want to deliberately create a boundary and controversy, rather than "exist peacefully".

If it is just an overcomplicated way of saying I am a girl/boy but I like this [stereotyped gender subject] and not that [other stereotype], then fine, but it does not exclude one from being the sex they are.

 

[Smashed & Slamed]

Attention.

 

[SofondaCox]

The ability for others be unable to discern their sex.
For attention.

 

[Sneed's Feed n Seed]

Attention.

First Post, Best Post.

The ability for others be unable to discern their sex.
For attention.

A toast to the second post.

 

[Astro Galactic Megalul]

For themselves it's usually to feed their narcissism. On a grander scale, whether these individuals understand it or not, it's just another tool to shake social coherence.

 

[Antony_the_spin_god21]

They lack a personality so they resort to replace it with gender bullshit

 

[From The Uncanny Valley]

Girl genderspecial: annoying quirky autist
Boy genderspecial: sex offender or grooming victim

 

[Tanuki Mixed Nuts]

Girl genderspecial: annoying quirky autist
Boy genderspecial: sex offender or grooming victim

Girls tend to have some assorted form of abuse, sexual or otherwise as well. It ends up taking form as a "I don't want men to find me attractive" kind of thing, which materializes as less feminine, less stereotypically attractive clothing/hair/etc choices. Sorta like those who turn to this either go hyper sexual (males) or anti sexual (females) when abused and introduced to nonbinary as a concept.

 

[Wallace]

A way to gain the benefits of being an alphabet person without the costs. Or if you want to not be a woman, but you don't want to be a man either.

 

[SheepishShark]

It's either gender-special attention seeking at best or in many cases predator/ prey response to sexuality.
When women are "agender" or "gender neutral", their typically trying to avoid male sexual attention either out of personal insecurity or prior sexual predation.
Male gender-queers are either predators trying to look less threatening or grooming victims trying to garner more sexual attention from their groomer.

 

[Silver Higgs]

Some people are just fucked in the head. They do things without a cause, reason, logic, sense. They just do. You can try to find a point in all of it, but even though they look like you and seem normal. In reality their brain operates on a different level than yours. Not say that there isn't a pattern in the chaos. Some of this gender-special individuals are trying to achieve something but its not some grandeur ground breaking thing. First reply to this thread nailed in the head what's the actual case is for most of them.

Simplify to selfish reasons.

 

[Jay2U]

For good looking girls its because the tranny movement has destroyed the tomboy identity. Girls can't be a tomboy anymore without being told they are actually a man

 

[Do Not Touch Me Pls]

Same logic as Christians in Ancient Rome trying to make mass slaughter, torturing and suffering look like a good thing.

Essentially mental illnesses or pedophiles, mass murderers and/or vagrants either making themselves unaccountable or claiming that they have "redeemed themselves".

 

[Heinrich Maneuver]

To escape being a 'man' or a 'woman' and thus the implicit adult responsibilty that comes with those labels. Forever staying a neurospicy teen who just can't adult!

 

[Not A Bunny]

Remember when everyone was self-diagnosed bipolar?

That's this. Except you're supposed to not only accept it without question, you're also supposed to praise them for being their brave, authentic self.

 

[Super-Chevy454]

Attention.

Now if only there was the ransom of attention just like there is the ransom of glory....

 

[Not A Bunny]

To escape being a 'man' or a 'woman' and thus the implicit adult responsibilty that comes with those labels. Forever staying a neurospicy teen who just can't adult!

This video is a great elaboration on what you're saying here:

 

[Some Badger]

In my observation, it’s often a stepping stone to trooning out, especially with women. This can be corrected with weight loss and getting offline, however.

 

[kkreemstar]

you gotta understand mind control. Literally, all you have to do to control someones mind is to get them to believe you; a lie.

so they are attempting to get you to believe a lie, or control your mind; mind-control.

 

[GratsTheat783]

My guess is that it's a in part attention seeking and another part cope for low confidence men and women who feel they aren't as masculine/feminine as their sex should be.