Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

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assembly powiedział(a):
What? I didn't say any of that. Yes I do have some self issues related to being on my own but I'm not expecting others to do stuff instead of me, I do try to fix this issue as much as I can but how do did you even get into thinking that?
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I think she was speaking generally, not to you in particular. If it doesn't apply to you, no need to worry about it.
 
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I finally steeled myself and cleaned out my husband's side of the wardrobe. Now I just have to do mine. I found a lot of garbage in his side. plastic bags and packaging and so on.

I'm sure there's another trash bag worth of unused clothing in here that's clogging up the flow of laundry. I need space to put the clothes once I clean them and so on.
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Laundry room? Spare bedroom?

I bought a couple of inexpensive rolling clothing racks (for like $30 on Amazon) with double rods. They were a snap to assemble, and despite being jam-packed with freshly-ironed clothes (n.b., I'm a fan of the skinny "velvet" hangers and bought hundreds of them), these cheapo racks are not sagging at all and roll great to mass-move clothes, even on thick carpet.

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No we got into a domestic when I said it was time to clean out his closet and now I'm celebrating that I won't need to get in another impromptu stupid wrestling match to clean off mine.
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I hope you're joking for effect.

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I'm just trying to get this house to work a bit better...
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Sometimes it's just better to do things oneself. I'm 100% sure my mother never enlisted my father to do something like clean out a clothes closet (thiugh to be fair, 1) they had separate closets, 2) neither of them is a slob, and my dad's packrat behavior doesn't extend to clothes, and 3) unless it involved heavy lifting, carpentry/ electrical/ plumbing, or my dad's office or the garage, or buying groceries, managing the house interior was my mother's province. Y'all should get to some agreement about which things are which person's responsibility and remove the arguments (and resentment) about it.
DSHK powiedział(a):
Wheres a good place to go that will allow me to interact with women and actually get the chance to interact with them? I go out quite a bit but theyre all just there with their bfs or their friends and I cant find an opportunity to approach without looking like a weirdo.
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If some of your posts here are any indication of your real feelings or how you express yourself irl, I'm afraid there is no point in locating yourself around women.

But if you are not actually a weirdo: a park where people are out and about exercising (and do that), a climbing gym, any meetup event, any daytime event like a book or arts fair (lots of people go solo, and you're just slowly milling about, lots of stopping and standing, so it's easy to make a comment to a stranger*)....

* And certain bookstores, at least before everyone was in earbuds and treating everyone else like an annoyance.
Some years ago I met a guy in the self-help/ divorce section of a big Barnes & Noble, lol. He made a comment, we ended up chatting for an hour-and-a-half. Actually an incredibly normal and balanced guy, and we dated a little here and there but mainly stayed friends for many years.
And then you realize there's no reason to be in a relationship.
Yeah, you might find you prefer to solo it. But if not, you're in a thousand times better place to date or be in a relationship.
 
DSHK powiedział(a):
what about 2nd and charles?
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In the past I've been approached by men there and never minded, even though I wasn't single and told them so. I didn't mind because these men weren't weird and didn't give me the impression that they were there to pick up women. They seemed like they were there to browse and just happened to notice me (whether or not this is true, this is the impression they managed to give off). It would have been creepy if they'd appeared to have been hanging out in there all day, not buying anything, and stayed after I left, or followed me out into the parking lot (which has happened to me before, but not at 2nd & Charles).

What I'm getting at is that it's not a good idea to go places simply to meet women. You do need to get out there, but for your own sake. Find things to do that you're actually interested in, otherwise you'll be bored the entire time and get frustrated when there's no payoff in the form of a girlfriend to ease your loneliness.
 
Shakira Flabbergasted powiedział(a):
In the past I've been approached by men there and never minded, even though I wasn't single and told them so. I didn't mind because these men weren't weird and didn't give me the impression that they were there to pick up women. They seemed like they were there to browse and just happened to notice me (whether or not this is true, this is the impression they managed to give off). It would have been creepy if they'd appeared to have been hanging out in there all day, not buying anything, and stayed after I left, or followed me out into the parking lot (which has happened to me before, but not at 2nd & Charles).

What I'm getting at is that it's not a good idea to go places simply to meet women. You do need to get out there, but for your own sake. Find things to do that you're actually interested in, otherwise you'll be bored the entire time and get frustrated when there's no payoff in the form of a girlfriend to ease your loneliness.
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what would give off that impression so I can avoid unintentionally doing that?
 
DSHK powiedział(a):
what would give off that impression so I can avoid unintentionally doing that?
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If you were there when I arrived, I'm there for an hour and a half because I'm having trouble deciding what to buy, and you're still browsing when I leave, I'm assuming you're not really there to look at books. Staying longer than the average shopper, being there day after day and not doing anything (it's fine to be a regular at a café, but actually bring work or a book with you and do that instead of just creepily staring at people), as well as asking out multiple women on the same day will all get you branded as a nuisance.
 
A male friend of mine wants to fix his clothing and become more fashionable, commendable, so I offered him to go out together and shop for some stuff since he really absolutely has no clue it seems. We got some more better fitting things and went away from the t-shirt cargo pants look, but fuck me there is barely anything fashion wise for men. Like, when I want to express certain things in my outfit I can reasonably assume to find stuff/look forward to cool new stuff for the season, but there is almost nothing for men. At the very best you get some nice peeky-blinders style attire, but outside of that it seems grim. Colors also seem to be a no-go, we found plenty of browns, grey, whites but the most color we could find was some dark blues.

Were we just unlucky or is it really hard to find expressive stuff for guys? I looked a but around on the net and I guess their endgame is suits and wrist watches?
(I know slightly offtopic, but I couldn't find a male fashion thread)
 
Brandy [◉''] powiedział(a):
A male friend of mine wants to fix his clothing and become more fashionable, commendable, so I offered him to go out together and shop for some stuff since he really absolutely has no clue it seems. We got some more better fitting things and went away from the t-shirt cargo pants look, but fuck me there is barely anything fashion wise for men. Like, when I want to express certain things in my outfit I can reasonably assume to find stuff/look forward to cool new stuff for the season, but there is almost nothing for men. At the very best you get some nice peeky-blinders style attire, but outside of that it seems grim. Colors also seem to be a no-go, we found plenty of browns, grey, whites but the most color we could find was some dark blues.

Were we just unlucky or is it really hard to find expressive stuff for guys? I looked a but around on the net and I guess their endgame is suits and wrist watches?
(I know slightly offtopic, but I couldn't find a male fashion thread)
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"Expressive"?
 
Brandy [◉''] powiedział(a):
Were we just unlucky or is it really hard to find expressive stuff for guys? I looked a but around on the net and I guess their endgame is suits and wrist watches?
(I know slightly offtopic, but I couldn't find a male fashion thread)
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I don't think most guys ever think about "expressing" things through clothing. When I think of clothing, it falls into 3 categories: either something comfortable (cargo pants, tshirt, hoodie), something with utility (pants/jacket with lots of pockets, raincoat, sturdy clothes for yardwork, etc), or a suit for business/events/showing off.
Shakira Flabbergasted powiedział(a):
What I'm getting at is that it's not a good idea to go places simply to meet women. You do need to get out there, but for your own sake. Find things to do that you're actually interested in, otherwise you'll be bored the entire time and get frustrated when there's no payoff in the form of a girlfriend to ease your loneliness.
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This whole going outside thing is my greatest weakness. I don't enjoy social events much if at all. I think the only places I really enjoy are hardware stores and furniture stores/expos. It's always fun to look for/at cool hardware and tools, and also home design stuff and cool furniture.

Speaking of places to go to look at stuff, do women frequent museums?
 
long waters powiedział(a):
Speaking of places to go to look at stuff, do women frequent museums?
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I personally love museums, but some women are bored by them. You have to consider the type of woman you'd like to date. If you think you'd do best with an introverted type, try the museum or the bookstore. If you want an active and adventurous partner, try the rock climbing gym. Think about what interests or hobbies you'd like a potential girlfriend to share with you and choose accordingly. Some women do go to the hardware store, but are more likely to be found in the gardening section than the power tools section.

Also keep in mind that museums are a typical date spot for couples, so you might not find many single women there.
Mark Goldbridge powiedział(a):
Do you truly hate slurs/cursing? Or is it just the way you socialize with friends that it seems wrong not to hate it?
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You're asking women on the slurs website if they hate slurs?
 
Brandy [◉''] powiedział(a):
A male friend of mine wants to fix his clothing and become more fashionable, commendable, so I offered him to go out together and shop for some stuff since he really absolutely has no clue it seems. We got some more better fitting things and went away from the t-shirt cargo pants look, but fuck me there is barely anything fashion wise for men. Like, when I want to express certain things in my outfit I can reasonably assume to find stuff/look forward to cool new stuff for the season, but there is almost nothing for men. At the very best you get some nice peeky-blinders style attire, but outside of that it seems grim. Colors also seem to be a no-go, we found plenty of browns, grey, whites but the most color we could find was some dark blues.

Were we just unlucky or is it really hard to find expressive stuff for guys? I looked a but around on the net and I guess their endgame is suits and wrist watches?
(I know slightly offtopic, but I couldn't find a male fashion thread)
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Have you tried shopping online? And how "expressive" does he want to be?
 
ThePozzedOutCritic powiedział(a):
What kinda alcohol do you gorls like? If you drink that is.
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Depends on the time and day. If its the weekend? Hard liquor with a juice chaser before moving on to hard ciders, maybe a couple vodka redbulls mixed in. If it's just been a long ass day and I'm tired, I'll drink a small bit of whatever's in the house to help me sleep.
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Where do you find nice jeans that arent thin pieces of shit that get holes immediately
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most womens jeans suck absolute ass. Just wear mens jeans, they're built to be stronger and last longer because they aren't designed with the changing tides of women's fashion in mind plus they actually have pockets. I like Gap jeans personally, but Buffalo jeans are great too, albeit a bit pricier than Gap.
 
ToxicCatnip powiedział(a):
most womens jeans suck absolute ass. Just wear mens jeans, they're built to be stronger and last longer because they aren't designed with the changing tides of women's fashion in mind plus they actually have pockets.
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I tried some on once and it had space for a whole loaf of bread in the crotch. It's just not possible lmao
 
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