Missus gets mad I ask if she'd work out or walk or ride with me
>Missus caught herself mid grope just now because I look better and she does not
>Wonder why I don't just chew through women half her age or hookers at this point
>Realize it's literally cheaper in the end
Oof. Good luck buddy. The reality is, probably every married man who decides to work out will see this one day. There's no winning. It's now a game to her. And because it's a game, she can't lose.
I'll still never get over how much deleting all dating apps immediately improved my mental health to the point where it made me genuinely question if I ever needed a woman in my life again.
The dating apps were designed to make money. They were never designed to find you a partner. Deleting them won't just make you happier, it'll make you better with women.
Do I miss getting my dick sucked from time to time? Sure. But so do many of my married friends.
This is why partner selection is the most important thing. Not all women are like this, but many women will lock you into the rat race against each other. Every girls coffee/wine hour they compare their men against the council and see if they get approval. When you do this 50 times, eventually the old talking points don't sell anymore and it morphs into Keeping Up With the Jones'. All you can do is find a woman who doesn't engage in this behavior or make one aware of it who will realize how self sabotaging to relationships it is and hope she finds it disgusting. Neither are easy tasks.
People will always be maladaptive and insane, we need to stop the medical profession executing the protocol . If there’s no prescriptions and surgery, this turns back into shitty teen angst and naff clothing choices, all reversible. It’s doctors who are enacting the damage physically, they have to be stopped. And we throw all the groomers into a volcano too.
Unless you get Trump to get the APA and disbar hundreds if not thousands of Psychiatrists, this will never, ever happen.
I've had TWO concrete offers to be a third in someones relationship and I straight up told them to just fucking dump them and save the heartbreak of watching it freefall even further.
Something is brewing here, and I think people really need a long period of being single as a palette cleanser to work out what they are and what they want.
This was always the case. You think every marriage was happy? Of course not. A lot of Boomers who got divorced, got divorced for a very good reason. Men don't get this, but bad women will always ruin them but in the most subtle way possible. Married men's self esteem doesn't come through themselves. It comes through their spouse. So when their spouse begins looking at them with contempt or disappointment, it breaks them completely and over time this grinds them into the dirt. It doesn't matter if it's a CEO or a grunt worker. Over time they go from feeling great, to hating their lives and it's solely because their wives demand more from them or have them in competition with their friends wives and Sandy likes to lie and say her husband got them a vacation home in the Alps and a vacation home in Bali for Christmas this year and make her friends feel like inadequate shit. See how this goes?
A woman's need to feel superior makes her lie to her friends. Her lie to her friends makes them feel like shit. Them feeling negative comes back to you and they act shitty towards you for not getting a vacation home in Bali and being ambitious enough to even have a vacation home in the Catskills. Then they take it out on you and view you as lesser because they can't help. Who's the ultimate victim of Sandy's lie? YOU. Can you stop it? No. The only way of stopping this is awareness. The problem? Most men don't get this. You'll always be the victim when your girl feels like trash, and it's not even something she's aware she's consciously doing. Or she is, and she fights you for claiming of being a victim, then you have a bigger problem.