Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Nefarious Elliot]

Wow, you're like, so emotionally detached and heccin chungus smart and redpilled and shit. You ever consider using your 160 iq to do anything besides jerk off about your own autism and superiority? if you're really so smart and can read so well about le masculine spirit and brain chemistry, surely you can understand the simple concept that women don't want to fuck you because your soul and heart are just as tiny and uninspiring as your penis? Or, is that just a little too advanced for you? You could try watching some more Rick and Morty I guess? Then again, you could just shack up with other intelligent species such as your fellow man and embrace the philosophy of Brokeback Mountain. Being a gay cowboy isn't so bad.

I live a fairly normal life with some nice hobbies. It's fairly rare that I go on at length about this. What a great assertion, "my soul and heart and penis are tiny, and I should be gay instead." It's a fairly good example of what I just said: Women are wantonly hostile to men who don't understand them, or men who they see as flawed, or poorly socialized. One can honestly approach a woman for help in this regard, and they can expect such great, helpful responses as what I have received in this thread.

Women seem to hold certain strange ideas to be self-evident and obvious, and proceed to ostracize you when you don't instantly understand them.
Because they see men who don't understand them as vermin.
Because they don't see men as having intrinsic social value.
Because they resent men who they don't see as otherwise valuable.

Thank you, I have never been more adamant in my beliefs as I am now, and I assure you that the resentment is mutual. Feel free to prove me right again, first it was penis length and now the next personal attack in the female rotation is either hygeine or calling me insecure, if you're even that creative. Men have a monopoly on violence and the rule of law will not last forever in the current and coming global climate. Enjoy your WROL /happening/ with millions of men like me whom you created.

 

[Inside your walls]

Yes, the problem is that women can sniff out that I'm an incel from miles away, every time I decide to be open minded and attempt to open up to them they get the "ick" and find a different, taller chadlite. I'm in a vague, niche hell.

Do you open up or do you just decide to info dump your entire emotional baggage on a random girl while expecting her to just take it and not be overwhelmed by that? Because 99% of the times when men say "they opened up to a girl and she didn't like it" they conveniently forget to mention that they decided to drop their entire emotional baggage onto that random woman or say something that you definitely shouldn't say on your first meeting/date.

The reason why women don't want to date a socially inept man even if he's basically a Greek God incarnate in terms of body is because there is nothing fun, wonderful or enticing about being a secretary for an autist. There is nothing endearing about teaching an autist things that they should know by now in terms of socializing or having to burdened with organizing that autist's social life to make sure he has social contacts he can talk to other than you. When an autistic man who is paired with a woman shits the bed socially in front of others, they're not going to ask him why they did that there going to ask the woman instead because they already see her as his PR manager and tard wrangler.

The "Socially Inept Men are hecking wholesome chungerinos and endearing give them a chance" trend needs to die off.

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Ladies. Hercules' physique - hot or not?

It works on a statue since it's exaggerated, but IRL I don't think it would be appealing.

 

[Core Theorist]

Thank you, I have never been more adamant in my beliefs as I am now, and I assure you that the resentment is mutual. Feel free to prove me right again, first it was penis length and now the next personal attack in the female rotation is either hygeine or calling me insecure, if you're even that creative. Men have a monopoly on violence and the rule of law will not last forever in the current and coming global climate. Enjoy your WROL /happening/ with millions of men like me whom you created.

Yeah, have fun with your weird rape fantasies when a woman (or her husband, w/e) pulls out a .45 and leaves you bleeding out and gasping for air. Maybe you'll get lucky and just get pepper-sprayed and cry like the little boy you are.

You're one of those cucks that are so insufferable you can't even suffer a little ego pain by actually admitting you're wrong about anything. You come into a space obviously intended for women, who in their infinitely optimistic and sweet magnanimity, have set some of that space aside just to humor the occasional hopeless retard who wants to open up a dialog for advice. You "want" to ask for 'advice' without actually admitting you're a pussy, a faggot, and a coward, so the logical conclusion is that you just wanted to confirm a self-serving preconception in which you're hopeless (this is a self-fulfilling prophecy) and the only way to get what you want (pussy, instead of a companion or anything) is to revert into a rape-ape, which is what you actually wanted to do in the first place anyway. You want the excuse to be an animal because being a human being is just too difficult. You'd rather debase yourself further instead of admitting ignorance.

I really hope your mother doesn't realize you're that pathetic, I feel bad for her. Still, I think she'd be really happy if you just admitted you hate women and you want to suck dick. Have you considered getting the chop and just becoming a woman? It's not gay as long as the dicks don't touch, so if you chop it off you can't be gay.

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[Nefarious Elliot]

Your physique is better than mine was when I was in my prime and I did fine. You just don't have game right now. How old are you and what's your line of work? Unironically consider getting a job where you have to talk to people.

I am 22 and I work in non-public-facing IT where I can freely wander about various facilities and offices if I feel like. I had a phone CSR/Sales thing before. I couldn't possibly go to in person retail sales, I enjoy my job.
All I really learned from the phone sales and another sales job I had is that a significant portion of people are algorithmic, certain seemingly identical phrases can be shown to be better than others via a/b. The bottom 60% of non-agentic people can probably be individually condensed to a unique phraise that makes them do whatever you want. I don't see how that's related at all to real, authentic human conversation, though. If I started "flirting" with girls I'd probably get fired, but I'm not even sure what flirting actually consists of. There's boner sex talking where I behave like a pervert, then there's normal talking where I find things I relate to about the person and go on longwinded tangents with them.

I'm usually quiet and unless I trust the person I only say things which serve utility, because I was taught an important lesson in school that if I "speak my mind" I get to visit the "Sheriff's Deputy" in the "office".

 

[YHWH's Strongest Soldier]

I am 22 and I work in non-public-facing IT

I had a phone CSR/Sales thing before.

the phone sales and another sales job

You sound like a pussy. Find a job for real men.

 

[Core Theorist]

You sound like a pussy. Find a job for real men.

The vast majority of modern male problems resolve into "buy some wood and build some fucking tables, faggot", huh?

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Yeah, have fun with your weird rape fantasies when a woman (or her husband, w/e) pulls out a .45 and leaves you bleeding out and gasping for air. Maybe you'll get lucky and just get pepper-sprayed and cry like the little boy you are

Bold of you to assume he won't crash out the minute he sees her evil gaze and laughs at him . This guy is a cuck and a bitch. He can’t to talk to a woman without spilling his spaghetti all over the place

 

[DefinitelyNotMe]

I am 22 and I work in non-public-facing IT where I can freely wander about various facilities and offices if I feel like. I had a phone CSR/Sales thing before. I couldn't possibly go to in person retail sales, I enjoy my job.
All I really learned from the phone sales and another sales job I had is that a significant portion of people are algorithmic, certain seemingly identical phrases can be shown to be better than others via a/b. The bottom 60% of non-agentic people can probably be individually condensed to a unique phraise that makes them do whatever you want. I don't see how that's related at all to real, authentic human conversation, though. If I started "flirting" with girls I'd probably get fired, but I'm not even sure what flirting actually consists of. There's boner sex talking where I behave like a pervert, then there's normal talking where I find things I relate to about the person and go on longwinded tangents with them.

I'm usually quiet and unless I trust the person I only say things which serve utility, because I was taught an important lesson in school that if I "speak my mind" I get to visit the "Sheriff's Deputy" in the "office".

Trying too hard dude
You are young, retarded and narcissistic. And your bitching about this shit and thinking about it too hard also makes you desperate.
Find a hobby, something to do with your hands, preferably around other people, something that you like and use your free time with learning something. Acquaintances and friends will grow around you naturally.
And bitch about your problem less. No one wants to hear this

 

[Core Theorist]

Bold of you to assume he won't crash out the minute he sees her evil gaze and laughs at him . This guy is a cuck and a bitch. He can’t to talk to a woman without spilling his spaghetti all over the place

Well, your optimism about the male condition is infectious, ma'am.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I am 22 and I work in non-public-facing IT where I can freely wander about various facilities and offices if I feel like. I had a phone CSR/Sales thing before. I couldn't possibly go to in person retail sales, I enjoy my job.
All I really learned from the phone sales and another sales job I had is that a significant portion of people are algorithmic, certain seemingly identical phrases can be shown to be better than others via a/b. The bottom 60% of non-agentic people can probably be individually condensed to a unique phraise that makes them do whatever you want. I don't see how that's related at all to real, authentic human conversation, though. If I started "flirting" with girls I'd probably get fired, but I'm not even sure what flirting actually consists of. There's boner sex talking where I behave like a pervert, then there's normal talking where I find things I relate to about the person and go on longwinded tangents with them.

I'm usually quiet and unless I trust the person I only say things which serve utility, because I was taught an important lesson in school that if I "speak my mind" I get to visit the "Sheriff's Deputy" in the "office".

The only way you can get laid is to keep your mouth shut and smile and hope some bubbly idiot fucks you

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Well, your optimism about the male condition is infectious, ma'am.

I know a bitch when I see one. Men threatening with rape are toothless dogs barking at you behind a fence

 

[2mm and 99 others]

Because they see men who don't understand them as vermin.

Because at least trying to understand requires being able to see women as individuals and as human. It's not that hard and not being able to do so ultimately makes one a mere penis golem.

Because they don't see men as having intrinsic social value.

They don't see it in YOU. What's the point of hanging out with someone with non-existent or outright negative social value?

 

[crazedaze]

women feel entitled to men "not objectifying them and treating them right" or whatever

Men feel entitled to "a woman existing that will give them sex love and companionship in exchange for sex love and companionship".

Has reddit told you you're a subhuman piece of shit that no woman will ever love, and you had the right idea with the bullet snack thing?
Because you're a subhuman piece of shit that no woman will ever love, and you had the right idea with the bullet snack thing.
Men feel entitled to feeding themselves their own bullets, who ever thought about me and my desires to feed it to them? Noone, that's who.

 

[failed mist]

Because they see men who don't understand them as vermin.
Because they don't see men as having intrinsic social value.
Because they resent men who they don't see as otherwise valuable.

Think about it this way. It’s important for a woman to dispense judgement. She judges whether to use her body to, at great personal cost, make a partial copy of you, in the form of a child. Does she want more “you” in the world? More “you” in her life? In her community? That judgement informs her entire being and outlook, as it should.

If a woman doesn’t pass judgement on men, she’s seen as a danger to herself and a burden on her community, because she’s enabling dangerous, burdensome men.

If a man matures and works on himself and can demonstrate that he’s worth copying, then, perfect. That’s the point. Female contempt for dysgenic men is beneficial to humanity.

 

[Psyduck]

This has been racking around my head for a couple of days now. Maybe i just need some time to settle down and think it over, but i saw the thread pop up om the home screen, saw some real good advice on the first pages, so might as well shoot...

My workplace is shutting down soon. My girl and i enjoy a decent quality of life right now, but that's gonna change soon. We were planning to get married and start a family in the coming years, but i'm running numbers in my head and we just can't afford it anymore.

Future's really uncertain right now. I can't promise her things'll go back to normal shortly. Got some funds saved for a rainy day, sure, but that's not enough to support a family in the long run, and so far no new employer has called yet.

I've heard horror stories from a couple of friends ("The bitch always leaves after the gravy train stops!") but i don't know... My girl has supported some of my more autistic endeavors and is fully behind me pursuing my hobbies to try and make something out of them... But that's all under the umbrella of having an actual job or a way to support myself in the meantime...

So i guess i have two questions here:

Realistically, how much can you put up with when it comes to "downgrading" your lifestyle? What would be an instant dealbreaker?

Second one is, and honestly, this is probably just the shock of the moment speaking but... Should i just end it with her right now? She's been so excited, so happy about the idea of marrying up, having kids... Hell, the idea was to finally get her a ring by June, work towards getting a house later down the year, put the bun in the oven... But it doesn't look like it's gonna happen anytime soon like we planned.

I know her. Should i tell her the truth about my situation, she'd push on and swear she's there throughout good times and bad... But i cant help but think she'd resent me for it eventually.

I just want to do what's realistically the best option for both of us. She's the light of my days and til a couple of days ago i kept envisioning a future with her, but this fucking uncertainty is killing me. Things could improve a couple of seconds after i hit "post", things could get even worse down the line... But the fact that i just don't know whats gonna happen is pushing me to the edge here.

I'd appreciate it if you keep it sincere. Sure, thinking that your beloved is willing to weather the storm with you is comforting... But again, realistically, would you actually do it?

 

[A Cat in a Minefield]

@Psyduck if I were your friend IRL and you'd tell me your second point I'd probably slap you and call you a fucking retarded in the best friend way possible.

You have to talk to her about all of it. Don't hide anything, but don't make it out as worse as it is. Be honest, everything else would not be fair. Then you can discuss how you both should continue. Just because you haven't found anything yet, doesn't mean you won't ever. I don't know your relationship with her obviously, but throwing marriage, children and your shred future away, because you have to downsize and adjust your living arrangements is, sorry, retarded.

If she decides she doesn't want to share her future with you because of these new circumstances, break it off and you'll be better for it. If you can't weather a storm together it's probably for the best you separate.
The same decision obviously is true for you too, but you seem willing to continue the relationship.

 

[Psyduck]

-snip-

I think she already knows... Or at least she knows that something is bothering me. She probably doesn't realize how bad it truly is, though.

Or hell, maybe i'm the one who's overthinking it. I just had this issue confirmed yesterday and had no time to prepare for it all. This is the woman i want to grow old with, we've had our ups, our downs... But god damn, maybe it was my fault for "hyping" it up. We'd get together with the family, her sister just had her first child and my girl gets this raging baby fever that i kept stupidly teasing at, too.

"Who knows? Maybe we'll have our own, soon! *wink wink*"

"Damn, those are some nice jewels! Wonder how much the rings go for, *hyuck hyuck*"

I'm gonna have to break this out really soon... Just, hate to remember that i purposefully indulged these ideas in her, got her all hopeful and excited, and now the rug's gonna be pulled in just a single moment.

Just really fucking wish i knew what comes next, wish i had a backup plan. Well, there is this one option that's sort of available, and if it works, then that's near a dream job for me. Honestly speaking though, it's not happening for a while.

 

[NoReturn]

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Ladies. Hercules' physique - hot or not?

While both elegant by the Greek standard and useful if fighting the Nemean Lion (so it don't get bit off), the peepee looks - as with the statue of David - as if it is shriveled in fear.

 

[A Cat in a Minefield]

I think she already knows... Or at least she knows that something is bothering me. She probably doesn't realize how bad it truly is, though.

Or hell, maybe i'm the one who's overthinking it. I just had this issue confirmed yesterday and had no time to prepare for it all. This is the woman i want to grow old with, we've had our ups, our downs... But god damn, maybe it was my fault for "hyping" it up. We'd get together with the family, her sister just had her first child and my girl gets this raging baby fever that i kept stupidly teasing at, too.

"Who knows? Maybe we'll have our own, soon! *wink wink*"

"Damn, those are some nice jewels! Wonder how much the rings go for, *hyuck hyuck*"

I'm gonna have to break this out really soon... Just, hate to remember that i purposefully indulged these ideas in her, got her all hopeful and excited, and now the rug's gonna be pulled in just a single moment.

Just really fucking wish i knew what comes next, wish i had a backup plan. Well, there is this one option that's sort of available, and if it works, then that's near a dream job for me. Honestly speaking though, it's not happening for a while.

I am sorry you go through this. But there is little you can do. You just have to keep going. If your relationship is meant to be you'll weather through it and come out of it as a stronger team. Have faith

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

While both elegant by the Greek standard and useful if fighting the Nemean Lion (so it don't get bit off), the peepee looks - as with the statue of David - as if it is shriveled in fear.
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H'what if he's a grower?
Edit: also amazing greentext